Oh, how I love to travel. I love the going and the getting there, by car or air or whatever (except, boats, which can sometimes be not-so-fun for my head).

Air travel is especially great because I get to do some of my most favorite things: reading, crossword puzzles, hanging out with loved ones, napping, people watching, coffee drinking, . . . all while someone else does the hard work of transporting my luggage and flying the plane. Really, this is pure luxury!

So when I saw this new TV ad for Delta, my heart went out to the airline industry. In it, Donald Sutherland narrates the story of air travel in a way that evoked empathy in me for Delta in particular and the industry as a whole. It addresses many of the common grievances people have toward air travel in a way that reframes the root causes. I’ve heard plenty of passengers over the years gripe and complain about this, that, and the other. Most of it is plan silly (although there are always cases of true negligence), based on our human tendency to think that things should go as planned without a single hitch. That’s not realistic, in air travel or in life.

Click over to read my post at Christ and Pop Culture: Mixed Signals: Giving Grace to the Airline Industry. And get leave your thoughts in the comments.

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Mixed Signals is my weekly musing about marketing miscellany in advertising, branding, and messaging hosted each Thursday at Christ and Pop Culture.

 

 

I met the dawn on my early morning run. It spread out all puffy and orange and pink across the sky. The beauty caught my breath in my chest, and I was reminded that I am alive and witness to majesty.

This is a day I was glad to be running, grateful to have a body that lets me trot about like this whenever I so please. Not all days are like this, however. I’ve mentioned before my love/hate relationship with running. And I’ve often wondered if I would even be sad if injury or age would prevent me from the activity.

Travel has disrupted my running regimen this month, giving me a two-week reprieve. I ran the day before I left for India (2/7) and didn’t run again until yesterday (2/22). That’s my longest break since I started running a few years ago.

Honestly, I didn’t think much about running while I was gone. We were busy, and there weren’t places for me to run anyhow. But as our time in India came to a close, and we started thinking of what we wanted to do when we got home, I was surprised that running was one of the first things I wanted to do. I had actually missed running.

So now I know. It takes me about two weeks off to miss this activity that I love and hate. After two weeks, I’m itching to see Big Sky and visit the trails that are lined with towering trees along the stream with its chattering waters. It’s good to be home.

In less than eight hours I leave India.

[sigh.]

Of course I miss the Hubster, and I am so happy to get home to him. But my heart longs to stay, to spend time with the daughters in this incredible family I’ve come to know and love.

I thought I would post more often during my stay. But the time has been so full—in a great way. I simply haven’t had enough time to process and put words together. I’ll write more in the coming week, but for now, here are some closing snippets written on location from half a world away.

Fabulous Food
I had curry almost daily, sometimes at all three meals. Amazingly, I’m really not tired of it, but I do miss my usual foods (plain-old animal crackers, granola, fruit, etc.). I’ve even found a new comfort food in Chipati, the soft tortilla-like bread used to eat the curry. One night we had a tandoori chicken dish served with mint chutney; the chutney was so good I could have eaten it like soup. I asked for the recipe, so Mike and I will be having it regularly come grilling season.

Street Happenings
If you are bored in India, just go out to the streets. Here’s a list of the things I’ve seen: stray dogs, cows, goats, and wild hogs (too many to count); Indian wedding festivities (at least five); voting booths;  political rallies and celebrations; a camel; priests rolling down the highway for some sort of ritual (two); a pedestrian hit by a vehicle (he was able to hobble away from it, thankfully); women carrying goods on their heads; fruit and vegetable carts; buses and rickshaws crammed with people until bursting; and crazy traffic that weaves together like a choreographed dance (amazingly, without crashing).

Beautiful People, Darling Girls
The people I’ve met have been extremely warm and welcoming. We were greeted with flowers at least three times (which made me feel like a princess), and we were given places of honor (which made me feel sort of awkward).

The girls I met were beyond words! They have taken up a spot in my heart and mind, and I willingly make room for them! I wish I could stay to help them with their English and their studies so their dreams would come true. My heart broke today when the little ones said, “Erin Didi, come! We want to play with you!” . . . and I couldn’t, because we had to leave. A heart that loves much, aches much.

If you haven’t seen these girls, visit the As Our Own Facebook page (and give it a Like!). Almost all the photos there are of the daughters in the family, the very ones I’ve been privileged to meet.

There is something about travel—especially long-distance travel—that prods the heart to consider matters of safety and security. Our hearts tend to find comfort in familiarity, the very thing that most trips lack.

My upcoming trip to India weighs in heavy on the Unknown Scale. I’ve never been there. I’ve never been on a plane more than eight hours. I’ve never traveled to places requiring shots and pills. I’ve never spoken to others via interpreter.

There are plenty of unfamiliar things ahead of me. In that dark unknown, I wonder about the unsafe and the insecure I might face. And I wonder if what I’ve known of God in the light of the known and familiar will buoy me in the dark of the the unknown and unfamiliar. I rest in the truth that God is the same yesterday, today, and forever . . . that He is the same whether I walk in the bright morning light or the dark night of the soul.

Although I am not (yet?!) experiencing the sort of anxiety about this trip that makes your insides fight against itself, I cannot deny the unease that has been catching me off guard this week. It pushes me to practice resting in the One who has rescued me, bought me, and made all things new for me.

Two conversations have resonated within me this week, helping me rest.

The first was with dear friend and fellow book lover Vera. She was encouraging me with a story from her own mission adventure to Papua New Guinea some years ago. She said,”Safety is not a place; it’s a Person.” This reminded me of my favorite lessons from Corrie ten Boom’s biography, The Hiding Place. She says, “There are no ‘ifs’ in God’s world. And no places that are safer than other places.” She also said, “In the center of a hurricane there is absolute peace and quiet. There is no safer place than in the center of the will of God.” (Thanks, Vera!)

The second conversation was with my Lodge Ladies. We were lamenting how fear coaxes us into shrinking back from opportunities to tell of God’s goodness. Fear whispers the risk is too great—speaking up may result in embarrassment or shame. But living life according to fear isn’t really living. If I am to be poured out as a drink offering for the Lord, it will require everything. It will require my desire to save face and look good in others’ eyes. The wonderful part is, the price I pay in what I give up is chump change compared to the riches of living all out for God. I want to live a full life, unrestricted by my own insecurities. (Thanks, Lodge Ladies!)

Both of these conversations prick upon my heart’s desire for safety and security (physically, emotionally, socially, spiritually). I’m so very grateful that God promises me safety and security in Christ Jesus beyond what this life inflicts. I’ll close with a favorite passage (it’s lengthy, I know, but the richness is worth the read, I promise!), which proclaims the beautiful familiarity of the safety and security found in Jesus:

The Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good,for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified. What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things? Who shall bring any charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies. Who is to condemn? Christ Jesus is the one who died—more than that, who was raised—who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us.Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? As it is written: “For your sake we are being killed all the day long; we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.

I’m India bound.

February 8 I will board a plane that will send me halfway around the world and approximately 8,226 miles from home. This trip is the culmination of a journey that began just over a year ago, when I first started developing communications for As Our Own.

I didn’t realize that working for As Our Own would become one of those major section dividers in the story of my life. Never in my wildest dreams did I think the story of my life would include the topics of India and fighting child exploitation or that I would get to write about the transforming work that God is doing in places I’ve never been. How grateful I am that God is the one writing my story, because His version is way better than mine.

Although I’ve posted here at The Patch about As Our Own many times, you may not have read those entries . . . in brief, As Our Own works in India, standing in the gap for children who are at risk for life-long bondage, in treacherous situations that would lead to exploitation in the sex trade, organized begging, or bonded labor.

This work takes several forms. First is the immediate rescue of children who are in danger of exploitation and enslavement. They are adopted into the lifelong As Our Own family where they become beloved daughters, for life.

Another aspect of the work addresses the systemic, long-term issues that put children at risk. Without the transforming power of God’s love, there will always be another child to rescue. As Our Own fosters root-level transformation by equipping the Church and leaders to build strong communities where predators can no longer prey upon the innocent.

This is the beautiful work God is doing in the beautiful country of India. I cannot believe I get to be part of it. And I cannot believe I get to go there!

Many of you are curious what I will be doing on my trip. The goal is that I would see with my own eyes what I have been writing about for the past year! I want to be a sponge, soaking up everything I might need for future writing projects. I want to be a curious reporter, full of wonder and probing questions about a country and a people and a culture I have grown to love. I want to be a servant, willing to pour myself out in love and humility in whatever way I am prompted.

As far as day-to-day happenings, these are the sorts of things I will experience:

  • meet the 70-plus daughters in the As Our Own family
  • lead devotional sessions with the girls
  • meet the girls’ live-in staff, caretakers, and care directors
  • gather story leads and information for future communications
  • learn all I can about India’s society and culture
  • visit As Our Own’s Hope College, meeting the professors and students
  • visit an As Our Own–supported Lighthouse Church, meeting the pastor and congregants

This brief overview surely won’t do my trip justice! I don’t know how to explain a trip I’ve never taken to a land I’ve never visited to meet people I’ve only heard about, read about, and written about. I will be learning as I go, and I plan to post reports here during my stay.

I hope you will visit The Patch February 8–18 to discover what I am discovering. This is one story I don’t want to miss! (Thank You, God!)

It is damp and gloomy here in central Illinois today. This sort of weather always triggers a desire within me to snuggle-up under a blanket for a nap! Melancholy drifts over me too, like a wistful fog. What tugs at my heart today is a longing for last month’s vacation—not so much the trip itself (although Bora Bora was the ultimate getaway! see a few photos here) but rather the internal relaxation and rest mode that a vacation induces.

The unscheduled days somehow rushed by that week. I didn’t spend time on any of my writing projects, but I did jot some observational notes about the culture and life there.

The culture in Bora Bora is much different from our own, and in some ways, it is better. I realize we cannot neatly transpose their culture onto ours. But the mentality and lifestyle of the Tahitians challenged me to review how I live my life and what I dedicate my time and effort toward.

I left Bora Bora with my eyes opened a bit wider to the ways I have conformed to my own culture. Some aspects of Bora Bora’s culture I would like to replicate in my own mind and heart and life. There is also a danger, however, of looking to a culture (whether ours or the Tahitian) to conform to. The Scripture that challenges me is this one, from Paul’s letter to the believers in Rome:

“And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.” —Romans 12:2, NAS

The world we live in whispers that we are valuable because of the money we can gain through the work of our hands. But what if that cultural norm were null? What then would we do with our time, our intellect, our drive, and our creativity?

What would you occupy your time with if our culture did not operate on a monetary system (thus canceling the need to earn money to support your life)?

That’s the question for you, dear blogging world! More to come . . .

Yes, I’m still here . . . and thanks for continuing to visit, even though my previous post was more than two weeks ago (amazingly, the world has not rotated off its axis by my blogging negligence). I have an excuse though—I was on vacation, out of the country, with no convenient access to my blog. (And if I had spent my vacation blogging, I would have been a bigger geek than I already fear.)

I’ve been home—on solid, unmoving ground—just over 24 hours now. But my brain must have loved the 28 hours of motion via boat, plane, bus, and car, because it has not returned itself to normal. I feel like I am on a boat here in the middle of farmland. I have taken naps and taken Bonine—neither is a lasting cure. I think I just have to wait it out.

When the boat lets me off on shore, I’ll have a new post for you. (Even though I didn’t blog during my trip, my writer’s bent couldn’t help but keep a mental list of observations in need of processing.) Hope you’ll be back! And I hope the new posts will be worth your wait.

One thing I love about traveling is getting out and seeing the world outside my usual bubble. Travel allows me to see new places and new faces and somehow that makes everything familiar look slightly new once I return home. And travel always provides fodder for some great stories and some great laughs.

On a recent flight I took there was a woman traveling with her Seeing Eye dog. This is just the sort of thing I’m addressing—no one in my day-to-day bubble has need for a Seeing Eye dog, so this is new and fresh and it makes me think about things in a new and fresh way. Let me describe this scene.

The woman looked to be in her 50s. I think she had some semblance of vision, although maybe not much. I admired her courage to venture out in travel; often the pace of travel makes it a bit stressful for me . . . and I am able to see and navigate easily in the hubbub of the airport. (Kudos to this gal!) Her guide dog was lovely—with silky caramel-colored fur and pale eyes; it was not a dog I had seen before, so I was all the more curious about it. (Later, I overheard that this dog was a Vizsla.) Many travelers seemed drawn to the dog, if not in proximity, then with their gaze. I’m sure it was a combination of its unusual coloring as well as the unusual circumstance of a dog being in the airport and then onboard the plane.

I too found myself staring at the dog, longing to pet it even though I knew that was forbidden. (The first rule of human etiquette toward Seeing Eye dogs is that they are not to be addressed.) So I kept my distance, but I found my eyes locked onto the dog and its owner, wondering about the dog, the woman needing its assistance, and how she was able to manage air travel.

The crowd’s fascination with the dog continued, grew even, as we exited the plane and then waited at the baggage carousel. Here this woman met up with her greeting party; one of them also had one of these dogs. His dog seemed a bit younger in look and behavior, and I wondered if this man might be a trainer, as he did not seem in need of the dog’s assistance. Anyhow, many people gathered near the dogs and their owners, and some asked questions. One passerby came forth to pet the lively, younger dog. The owner caught the hand and stopped it just before it met the dog’s head, even as the dog eagerly leaned forward to receive some love. The owner briskly said, “Don’t pet the dog,” and pushed the hand away. No other explanation was given, and initially I thought this was a bit rude, but upon further pondering, I now wonder if the owners of such dogs encounter this scenario countless times a day. How tiring this would get. The passerby shrunk away, certainly feeling sheepish and possibly confused as to why he was not to touch such an obviously friendly dog.

Something about this scene has stayed with me, and layers of meaning have been sifting through my mind.

Seeing Eye dogs are on a mission for their masters. They have a job to do: to walk closely with their master and be the eyes the master needs. These dogs are trained to complete loyalty to the master, to be in tune with the master regardless of circumstance so that crowds, noise, and bustle do not steal away its concentration.

So I think about the mission I am on for my Master. I have a job to do: to walk closely with Him and be the hands and feet of Christ Jesus. I am to have complete loyalty to the Master, to be in tune with Him regardless of circumstance. This task is one I am honored to take but I do so knowing that I am yet in need of much training and discipline. So often, when crowds come close, I am easily distracted from Him; I get overly excited or nervous, and my work performance is shot. Sometimes I sense God giving my heart’s leash a loving spiritual tug to bring me back to attention and remind me of my purpose.

Seeing Eye dogs are working dogs and must not become accustomed to strangers offering them attention. It’s not that these dogs don’t need attention and love; rather, it’s just best that these dogs receive all the love and attention they need from their master’s hand. The dogs then associate love and care with the master alone so that they become dependent and trusting of that hand above all others.

What a lesson I would do well to learn! My heart has become too accustomed to the possible attention of strangers; I eagerly lean forward to receive what others might give, even though my Master has promised to shower me with all the love and attention my heart longs for. I’m in need of a bit of retraining, so that my heart turns to my Master for the care and attention I long for.

Oh, to be trained unto the Master like that. So much of my internal difficulties would be resolved if I could be weaned from the distractions and attentions of the crowd. I like how this is described in 1 Timothy 4:7, “discipline yourself for the purpose of godliness.” How simple! If all of life is a training ground, each moment I can discipline myself unto godliness or unto ungodliness. I am in training, either to lean toward the crowd (training myself for ungodliness) or unto the Master (training myself for godliness). The promise is this:

“Godliness is profitable for all things, since it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.” (1 Tim. 4:8)

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